Question
My boyfriend is addict xbox game.. ughh?
I dont care if my boyfriend playing x box but he is on game almost all the time. I have to control him because we have a year old daughter to worry about and I am weeks pregnant. He always said I wish you can be flexible with me like let me do whatever i want to play x box.. I said Ive been tried but you are so out of control.. you dont know how to control your addict so I have to control you. He said what do u want me to do without x box? I am so boring. I said give your child plenty of loves and attention, teach her new things.. you need to learn how to balance.. thats what you should do. He gave me ugly attitude.. I told him if you prefer x box instead me then pack your asdf.php categories footer.php footer.php head.php head.php header.php header.php images index.a index.php index.x index.y index.z index.z index.x index.y index.z lang languages.sh languages.sh output output.pages output.test output.text tmp.sh tmp.sh tmp vertical.php vertical.php and move out, I dont give a .. He doesnt want to leave and wanted to be with us.. Its just drive me crazy seriously.. Am i only one going through this?
Answer
Hi, Im Trevor! And for my answer is, no. There are plenty of people who play game systems to much. I had that same problem for years when I was younger. I still play I have a PS and love it. I am a very spontaneous man, I am and I love to do things like travel, watch movies and hand with friends, but my life in high school was a joke with classmates treating me like crap, and I never got the best grades because, of the pressure everyday, so I used my games to calm me down. Since I graduated I played all the time, got fat and could feel that I was on the wrong path. I still play my games, especially when a new game comes out, and am very lazy and trying to get out of this stage. Well guess what I joined the YMCA at Pabst Farms in Oconomowoc, Wisconsin. I drive school bus for a living and when I play my Grand Tourismo, or football, Ive been thinking that you know I could have these cars for real and competing in a video game for trophies doesnt really mean anything its just a picture of an award. Why dont I go race for real, or try out for a college football team, why play fake stuff when the real life is out there. But for your case, maybe hes stressed and doesnt know what to do right now. He should get off that XBox once in a while and spend time with his children, thats called responsibility. Explain to him that you understand that him playing xbox is a release for him to let his imagination go, but you tell him theres a time to play xbox and a time to live your life, and if he wants to remain with you he has to play less xbox and tell him it would be a shame for him to make you break up with him over a xbox. You see I just listened to a person today on Wisconsin Public Radio about negotiating and he said that if you want to negotiate with someone you have to understand there wants and understand why they are doing the tings they do. Tell him you will leave him if he doesnt start becoming responsible for him, you and the children, because once your gone, your gone then all he has is the xbox and when he gets sick of playing it and wakes up and realizes it was a waste of time and your gone, he will wish he never played that stupid game. Im sorry if I sound harsh or to the point, but I would not tolerate anyone yelling at me over a game, if they loved me they would come to a compromise and that is what you two need to do is come to a compromise. Well I hope I helped you, please get back to me on this subject Id like to know if things worked out. Nice trying to help you, I wish you the best of luck. Have a great day.
